Thursday, June 3, 2010
Family time vs. Boyfriend/ girlfriend time?
My advice is, combine the two. Obviously have your separate time but also try to make sure you all spend some time together too.
Breaking up?
When do you know if you are ready to break up? Generally I would say when you two start to fight constantly and things do not get better. Also, if you feel like you are always unhappy or unhappy most of the time. Those n are two signs to look for.
Wednesday, June 2, 2010
Tuesday, June 1, 2010
When too much is just too much.
When you and your partner do EVERYTHING together.
When you have to take him/her to work or school with you.
When you can't go 5 mins without talking to him/her.
When they don't consider anyone else who is involved but you and themselves.
SOmetimes too much is just that, too much!
When you have to take him/her to work or school with you.
When you can't go 5 mins without talking to him/her.
When they don't consider anyone else who is involved but you and themselves.
SOmetimes too much is just that, too much!
Thursday, May 27, 2010
Fighting, too much?
What do you do when you're fighting too much in the relationship or your fights get way out of hand? Take a couple Min's to think about if you are over reacting or if you are being mean to the other person. Sometimes you have to realize when you are being the unreasonable one. It's easier to fix the problem if you are calm and collected.
Wednesday, May 26, 2010
Choices...
Who do you choose, when your family and lover do not get along? Must you choose family, simply because they are family? Well, who makes you the happiest, and who would you like to make happy, that's the question you need to ask yourself. And you will find the answer within yourself.
Tuesday, May 25, 2010
Good sign or bad sign?
What if you miss your partner a lot but you're only away from them for two days? Is it a good or bad sign? Do you think there is a point when you are missing them too much? I honestly feel that it is a good thing that you are missing your partner. If you two are not serious and it's just a fling, then maybe there is a point when it's too much. But in other cases, there is not such thing, so enjoy it!
Thursday, May 20, 2010
Just ONE thing.
ONE thing to always remember is to love your partner in the good times and bad times. Do not run away everytime a problem arises, talk to your partner about it and solve it together. A relationship is all about team work and communication!
Wednesday, May 19, 2010
Birthdays
If your partner wants you to go somewhere with them for their birthday should you go even if you don't want to? Well, think about it, if you were in the position would you want them to go? If your answer is yes then you should go for theirs, if not think about how they feel and make your decision.
Pick up line of the day. (Twilight)
"My sister can see the future. Let me give you a clue, it’s Me + You."
Tuesday, May 18, 2010
Pictures
If you're with your significant other and plan on being with them for a very long time, should you delete old photos of other significant others? I think it is a good idea, because think about it, why would you want those pictures still? And if they end up finding them on their own it probably will not end well. So, do damage control, DELETE THEM!
Thursday, May 13, 2010
Transportation
Should it ALWAYS be a two way street when it comes to seeing each other? If one person comes to see the other one all the time but the other person takes care of the food and anything else you two need is that fair? I think we should always alternate between paying for things like food and driving to see one another. Make sure the both of you are making an effort.
Wednesday, May 12, 2010
Tuesday, May 11, 2010
Hard times.
This weekend my friend told me her boyfriend and her broke up and that just recently he deleted her from myspace, facebook, and whatnot. I think at that point, he's not worth it anymore. He should have at least told her why he was doing that, and deleting someone electronically isn't the way to go in the first place. People, stop being immature and just TALK!
Pick up line of the day!
I was so enchanted by your beauty that I ran into that wall over there. So I am going to need your name and number for insurance purposes.
Thursday, May 6, 2010
Honesty.
Honesty is really important in a relationship, but the main point i'm going to bring up is sexually. If you have been with other people not long before you and your current partner have been together, tell him/her. Your partner deserves to know what he/she is getting into. Make sure you both get tested before making any kind of physical commitment, you wouldn't believe how much of a difference it'll make!
Wednesday, May 5, 2010
How nosy is too nosy?
If your significant other happens to leave his/her phone around do you go through it? I'm going to tell you from personal experience that it would be so much easier to just ask him/her to see their phone. Once you do something like that behind their back, either they won't trust you or you won't trust them. So take my advice and just ASK!
Tuesday, May 4, 2010
Relationship quote of the day
Trouble is part of your life, and if you don't share it, you don't give the person who loves you enough chance to love you enough. ~Dinah Shore
Are you ready to commit?
When do you think you will know when you're ready to commit? To me, I think once you are seriously involved with someone. Once you are completely honest and open with them, and you feel no need to hide anything is when you're fully ready. Make sure you know the person you are willing to commit to, and that person knows you as well.
Thursday, April 29, 2010
Coming home to your significant other.
I believe it is a good sign if you are really excited and want to get home as soon as possible. If you don't really care one way or another, maybe something needs to change? And, if you are not excitedor happy to see he/she at all then you really need to fix something. The home should be a place of happiness and love, so if you don't see that or feel that way then something is wrong, fix it!
Wednesday, April 28, 2010
Who has a say in your personal relationship?
Honestly, I do think that your parents and familys feelings are important. It is really hard to have a good and long relationship if your family and parents do not support it. So take it into consideration if the confide in you and tell you they don't like your significant other.
Funny relationship quote!
"Some people ask the secret of our long marriage. We take time to go to a restaurant two times a week. A little candlelight, dinner, soft music and dancing. She goes Tuesdays, I go Fridays."
Henry Youngman
Henry Youngman
Monday, April 26, 2010
Time, time, time.
How much is too much time with your significant other? When is the right time to start spending more time together? I think that once things start to get serious and more long term is when you should start spending more time together. That way you know how it would be to live with one another later on in life. When you don't have any more friends and nothing to do but be with that one other person, that's when you're spending too much time together. Try and keep it all balanced and healthy.
Thursday, April 22, 2010
What is a healthy relationsship?
Well, I define a healthy relationship as two people who get along and share the same interest. A couple who fights, but does not let it get out of hand and at the end just wanna hold each other and say I love you. No relationship is PERFECT by any means, but a healthy relationship is important. Find out how you can be a better partner and make your relationship a healthy one.
Wednesday, April 21, 2010
Meeting his "friends".
Most girls think they need to impress their boyfriends friends, well i'm here to tell you you don't. Guys generally are nothing like girls, they don't need their friends to approve of their girlfriend. Yes, they would love it if their friends liked you, but your main concern is that your boyfriend is happy. So, don't be nervous, just be yourself because that's all you can do.
Tuesday, April 20, 2010
Spending more and more time together.
As you and your partner spend more and more time together you will learn a lot of different things about each other. Some things that you learn you will not necessarily like, but they are things you will have to cope with if you plan on being with that person for a while. I think it's best to find out each others quarks and flaws in the beginning of the relationship so that there are no surprises later. So, don't be scared, be curious and be open.
Just plain lame!
Pick up line: Did you clean your pants with Windex? I can practically see myself in them.
Thursday, April 15, 2010
Steve harvey on Ellen DeGeneres
Copy and past this code to your web search. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PedFMBCSaVg
Moving too fast?
How soon is too soon to say i love you? I believe it is not a matter of time but rather a sense of feeling. I have only been with my boyfriend for 4 months or so and I am completely in love with him. Sometimes it may take longer than others to feel that you love someone. But, just give it a chance, because you never know.
Wednesday, April 14, 2010
Same interest?
How important is it to have the same interests with the opposite sex? Or more impotantly, your significant other? I believe that it is semi important because you two will need activities to do with each other and it makes it so much easier if you two enjoy doing the same things. But, even if you don't have some of the same interests just try and do what the other person wants to do, and enjoy it, just make the most of it.
Tuesday, April 13, 2010
When is it too soon to move in with your other half?
That is the question of the day folks. How long do you think two people should be together until the consider moving in with one another? I believe, it's not the amoumt of time but rather how much they know each other and if they are in love. It's would be more difficult to move in with someone you don't love compared to someone you do love. So I say, if it feels right, do it!
Thursday, April 8, 2010
Funny holiday video
I know it's not any where near christmas but I thought you would enjoy this;
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WCjC9iVa52k
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WCjC9iVa52k
A little hint for the ladies.
On a first date, do not bring up religion or politics, these are very serious subjects that can hinder your chances of getting a man. The first date shouldn't be a serious "get to know me" kind of date. You two should just have fun and talk about light-hearted subjects.
Wednesday, April 7, 2010
Tuesday, April 6, 2010
Special little hint for guys.
Please, please, please, don't ever ask a girl if it's "that time of the month". This question with not end in a good conversation I promise you that. And guys, just because SOME girls can be cranky during that time does not mean we all are and definitely does not mean you get to use it as an excuse. So do us all a favor and do not, i repeat, do not ever bring up that topic.
Pick up line of the day!
Something you should never say to try and get a girl: I'm not drunk, I'm just intoxicated by you.
Friday, April 2, 2010
one very important thing to remember is..
Never go to bed mad at your partner. Sometimes things tend to blow over if you give it some time, but neither of you will feel any better if you go to sleep upset. At least come to a common ground first then make up and talk about it in the morning. Remember, if you're not happy, most likely your significant other isn't happy as well!
Thursday, April 1, 2010
Wednesday, March 31, 2010
Having a healthy, serious relationship.
One of the key things to remember is every healthy relationship begins and ends with communication. You two start talking and getting to know each other, once you like each other the communication gets deeper and deeper. Just be sure you're completely honest with one another, a lot of relationships are ruined by words not said.
Tuesday, March 30, 2010
Pick up line of the day!
Are you a parking ticket? (What?) 'Cause you've got fine written all over you.
Cold weather!
Take advantage of this weather with your loved one. Cold weather equals cuddle time. Rent a movie and stay in bed all day, or find something to do with your significant other that makes you both happy. This is the perfect weather to have a couple nights in with that one special person!
Thursday, March 25, 2010
Technology & relationships.
How big of a role does technology play in out relationships? It's, in fact, unhealthy to rely on technology for commmunication. Now-a-days, couples tend to fight and make up more through cell phone usage rather than in person. Every once in a while it's not bad for the relationship. But, if it's constantly different when you're face to face with him/her and when talking on the phone or texting then there is a problem. Stop relying so much on technology and just enjoy being with that person.
Wednesday, March 24, 2010
Holidays with the one you love
Easter is coming up everyone! So, are you stuck deciding whether to spend it with your family or your significant other? Try both. Having all of the ones you love together is a fantastic idea. You can even go to see his/her family after visiting your own. It's important to spend the holidays, even the little ones, with the people you love the most.
Tuesday, March 23, 2010
This is one way to stop a guy in his tracks.
George: Can I get your number?
Erin Brockovich: My number? Which one do you want?
George: How many numbers you got?
Erin Brockovich: Oh, I got numbers comin’ outta my ears. For instance: ten.
George: Ten?
Erin Brockovich: Yeah. That’s how many months old my baby girl is.
George: You got a little girl?
Erin Brockovich: Yeah. Yeah, sexy, huh? How ’bout this for a number? Six. That’s how old my other daughter is, eight is the age of my son, two is how many times I’ve been married – and divorced; sixteen is the number of dollars I have in my bank account. 850-3943. That’s my phone number, and with all the numbers I gave you, I’m guessing zero is the number of times you’re gonna call it!
cited:http://www.innocentenglish.com/best-funny-jokes/funny-pickup-lines-comebacks.html
Erin Brockovich: My number? Which one do you want?
George: How many numbers you got?
Erin Brockovich: Oh, I got numbers comin’ outta my ears. For instance: ten.
George: Ten?
Erin Brockovich: Yeah. That’s how many months old my baby girl is.
George: You got a little girl?
Erin Brockovich: Yeah. Yeah, sexy, huh? How ’bout this for a number? Six. That’s how old my other daughter is, eight is the age of my son, two is how many times I’ve been married – and divorced; sixteen is the number of dollars I have in my bank account. 850-3943. That’s my phone number, and with all the numbers I gave you, I’m guessing zero is the number of times you’re gonna call it!
cited:http://www.innocentenglish.com/best-funny-jokes/funny-pickup-lines-comebacks.html
How much time, is in fact, too much?
Honestly, think about it, people say when you have a boyfriend or girlfriend that spending a lot of time together is a bad thing. So, why is it that when you are married or living with your significant other it's not a bad thing? I am thinking that if you are able to live with someone knowing all their flaws and weaknesses that it should be a good thing. On the other hand even if you're able to put up with someone that much, too much time toogether can cause arguments. Whether you're married, living with someone, or just dating them, it's always a good thing to spend some time apart!
Thursday, March 18, 2010
Pick up line of the day!
Hey ladies, are you tired of the stupid, corny and just plain boring pick up lines so over used it makes you want to scream? Wish you knew just what to say to stop them in their tracks and walk away with a huge grin? So do i so here is one awesome comeback to a corny, cheesy pick up line.
A man says to a woman: "How do you like your eggs in the morning?"
Woman replies: "Unfertilized !"
A man says to a woman: "How do you like your eggs in the morning?"
Woman replies: "Unfertilized !"
St. Patty's day!
Yesterday was St. Patty's day & the old tradition would be to drink, usually out with your friends or something. Well here is something key to remember, if you are not with your significant other on this day or any other day you decided to drink, DO NOT call them. It's just a disastar when your drunk to call someone, and the last thing you wanna do is fight with the one you love. So just avoid it, don't pick that phone up!!
Wednesday, March 17, 2010
Different beliefs.
I used to have a serious boyfriend whom I was with for about three years. It finally got serious enough to start talking about marriage! I soon found out that him and I had very different beliefs. He wanted me to stay home with the children instead of going to work, like back in the old days I disagreed because I am an independent women I wanted to take car of myself. The moral of the story is never lose yourself or be somebody else just because your significant other wants it that way!
Pick up line of the day!!
A man says to a women: "So, what do you do for a living?"
Woman replies: "I'm a female impersonator."
-This has to be a good way to get rid of the loser who just used that pick up line. Haha.
Woman replies: "I'm a female impersonator."
-This has to be a good way to get rid of the loser who just used that pick up line. Haha.
Tuesday, March 16, 2010
Support Group!!
I went to visit my parents and friends this weekend and surprisingly got a lot of help from friends and my brother about relationships. About five people including my brother and I sat in my garage and literally had a support group going. We got into a lot of different subjects about relationships and love. It made me realize that the more people you talk to about your problems, the more point of views you are able to get. it helped me a lot in realizing some of the things I was going through. So, I have some advice, when you have a problem go to your friends, both boys and grls.
Thursday, March 11, 2010
Pick up line + response.
"If I could rearrange the alphabet I'd put U and I together."
Haha Wow. How cheesy is that, cute? Yes, but still oh so cheesy. What would you girls say? 'Cause my comeback to that would be, "Oh really, cause i'd put F and U together! Come on guys say something that would actually make me consider talking to you!
Haha Wow. How cheesy is that, cute? Yes, but still oh so cheesy. What would you girls say? 'Cause my comeback to that would be, "Oh really, cause i'd put F and U together! Come on guys say something that would actually make me consider talking to you!
Changes!
So, I overheard a conversation today at school. A couple girls were talking about boyfriends & the one girl told her friend if he loves her he will change. That's something I do not agree with, if she loves him she shouldn't want him to change. Think about it, if you're in love with someone, there is a reason for it. You do not get into a relationship thinking, "Oh, I'm going to change him." That's just not how things work! So girls, stop thinking they'll change for you, you should love the, for who they are!
Wednesday, March 10, 2010
Funny pick up line of the day + a response! :)
"Girl have you been eating a lot of lucky charms? 'Cause you're looking magically delicious."
Honestly girls, could you imagine a guy saying that to you? And what would your response be? I got one, LOSER! I wouldn't even know what to say to that, i'd be speechless!!
Honestly girls, could you imagine a guy saying that to you? And what would your response be? I got one, LOSER! I wouldn't even know what to say to that, i'd be speechless!!
Tuesday, March 9, 2010
Don't blow it!!
I advise all of you that are in a relationship: Never talk too much about your ex, or, pretty much any other guy or girl for that matter. I know I would hate it if my boyfriend constantly brought up his ex. A couple stories here and there are not bad, as long as you don't focus too much on the guy/girl. Don't forget we are only human, we will get jealous!
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