Different beliefs.

I used to have a serious boyfriend whom I was with for about three years. It finally got serious enough to start talking about marriage! I soon found out that him and I had very different beliefs. He wanted me to stay home with the children instead of going to work, like back in the old days I disagreed because I am an independent women I wanted to take car of myself. The moral of the story is never lose yourself or be somebody else just because your significant other wants it that way!